
Pound a Week Blog Challenge
by Steve Mancini
Congratulations! Seriously, I mean it. You’ve come to this page because you want to lose weight and to look and feel better. You’ve probably heard the saying, “Ninety percent of success is just showing up.” You’re here. You’ve showed up. You have made a commitment to take control of your body and not let it control you.
This may sound really corny, but I want you to find a mirror, look yourself in the eyes, and say, “Good job.” Say it as much as you’d like. I do it when I I’ve committed to doing something positive or accomplished something that I resisted. It makes a difference. Try it, I’ll wait for you.
Great! Now I’m not the only goofball who talks to himself in the mirror! I’m just kidding. It does feel good, doesn’t it?
One more thing before we move on. I want you to scroll down to the comment section of this blog post, put in your name (first name only is fine) and write the comment, “I’m in!”, just like I did, meaning that you’re unofficially “officially” starting the Pound a Week Blog Challenge!
The reason I started the Pound a Week Blog Challenge is because I’ve known many, many people who’ve struggled with weight loss and have tried and failed at diet after diet after diet. Here’s why they’ve failed.
Most Diets Set You Up To Fail
That’s right. You’re doomed from the moment you start, only you don’t know it until you’re so frustrated and exasperated that, not only do you quit your “newest” diet, you go on an eating binge and gain back all the weight you’ve worked so hard to lose, plus a few pounds! The creators of these diets don’t want you to fail, I believe, they just don’t realize that what they expect you to do will almost inevitably result in failure.
Here’s Why Most Diets Fail
Drastic change. That’s right. People do not cope with drastic change very well. They get used to the change, but usually because of necessity. I’ll give you some examples.
Moving. When you move from one house to another there’s a “getting-adjusted” period. Everything you, your body and your brain has been used to, been trained to do is now suddenly different. It could be extremely different if you’ve moved to a new state or country. We get used to being in a new location, but it takes quite a bit of time. How many times have you moved to a new place and wished you were back home, only to discover, after a few months, that you like your new place much better?! The reason most people don’t pack up after a day and run back to their old home, where it’s safe and secure, is because they’ve made a commitment. For most of us, once the paperwork has been done, there’s no turning back.
The same thing applies to death or getting a new job. When somebody close to you dies, it hurts, it’s a horrible feeling, but, eventually, you feel better and accept the idea that this person will not come back to life and you must go on without them. Again, there’s no choice. A new job can be very difficult to get used to. Have you ever started a new job that requires you to learn tons of new information? When you get home at the end of the day you’re exhausted. You probably sleep more for the first couple of weeks, but then adjust to your new world and feel like your old self again. Except with a better (hopefully) job.
But with diets, it’s too easy to take the escape route, to use our “Get Out of Jail Free” card and bail on the confounded things! Most diets fail you because they expect you to make sudden, drastic, often-painful changes in your lifestyle, but these are changes you can easily forgo in an instant because you were doing just fine before your diet. The commitment isn’t there. It’s just too hard.
If you’ve been steadily gaining weight over the months or years, and have done so by eating too much ice cream and cake nearly every day, and getting out of your chair to get more ice cream is the only exercise you get, and then suddenly a diet instructs you to do hundreds of stomach crunches and eat carrots and bland-tasting diet food, I’ll bet money that you won’t last but a few days. But it’s not your fault, and I’m not saying that lightly because I hold personal accountability very high. It’s just that I feel many people are duped into believing one of the more-severe diets will be easy for them, when it’s not.
With most diets, you’ve taken a lifestyle that you’ve been used to for a very long time and have completely thrown it out the window. But there’s no paperwork to keep you committed, like when you move. Your refrigerator is right there, staring at you, until you find yourself staring back. Your mind does funny things and your cravings go through the roof. That’s because your body has physically and psychologically grown attached to what you’ve been putting in it, and is rebelling. Big time. It’s too easy to quit this painfully-difficult diet, so you do. Then you feel sad or depressed and disappointed in yourself for giving up, so you eat a bag of potato chips to for comfort. Sound familiar? Let’s change that. If you haven’t already done so, put your name in the comment box and say, “I’m in!”
Now move on to the post named “How to Play”.

